They are not going to like you when you begin your journey to weight loss. In fact, they are going to challenge you and keep you from achieving your goal. Why? Because you have broken away from the status quo. You are venturing into the muddy waters where clarity and comittiment meets fear and despair.
Granted, if you begin to pursue this journey, you may lose a few friends along the way. So what should you do? Charge forward. Do not let this break you. Set your goal in place and do not allow the noise or distractions to prevent you from achieving your goal.
Simple minds are resistant to change and are willing to challenge anyone who has the courage to make changes in their personal lives. Compliments may come your way, but be certain that the same people who laughed at you when you were struggling with weight gain may continue to laugh when you have achieved your target.
Set your target and follow it through head-on straight like a horse with blinkers. Your Blinkers become your shield against the negative talk, sneering, jealousy, and ridicule you are going to face during this journey.
You must have the mental fortitude to survive the rough seas and storms that never seem to end. Keep your feet grounded and soldier on. Believe me, you will get there.